That's right only six days until I am officially a Gonzalez (like the world really needs another one). Oh well! I am honored to be counted a part of this club when I know so many fabulous people who are a part of it. Not to mention my soon to be inlaws!
And as much as I am incredibly busy and swimming in logistics, I thought I would just take a minute and share something I have been learning in this process. Mainly, forgiveness. Because, you see, what happens when we start moving forward with plans is stuff comes to the surface. Especially when those plans involve other people...ah, yes, people. God loves them and so should we...though not always easy. But if it were easy, it wouldn't be love....just simple reciprocation of emotional ooey-gooeyiness. (sp?) Which, as we've heard from the book of life, anyone can love those who love them first, it's loving our enemies that's the hardest. And sometimes are enemies may present themselves in the form of people who unknowingly cause hurt. And it is in those moments that me must choose to forgive else we deny ourselves from living the fullness of the life of God...even for a second...I, for one, do not want to miss out on anything the Father would have for me. It's like not getting a prize because you were absent when they picked the winner...bummer :(
How do we know we need to forgive someone? Easy...the Holy Spirit will let us know. Generally speaking, if thinking about that person or a certain situation creates unwelcome thoughts or emotions, it means something needs to be dealt with...Dealing with it definitely means praying for them, confessing your forgiveness outload before the Father, sometimes confessing to them, but no always, and often doing some action to express your forgiveness, not to spite them, but to cover over the past. Love covers a multitude of sins. (I Peter 4:8) Love in action is the best way to move on from past hurts. Send a gift, write a encouraging word, or meet a need. Nothing overcomes evil like good!
I hope this helps someone today. Remember, the most important things we are to pursue are faith, hope and love...and the greatest of these is love!
With love,
Juliana Diaz (Gonzalez)
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